First Date Tips for HIM & HER

Dating can be tough and first dates can be painful. So what are you to do? Here is a list of dating tips to start the year out right!

• Arrange your own transport to and from the date.
  This way, you are always in control. If the date goes bad, you have the option to leave at any time. He doesn't know where you live, which stops a bad date turning into a nightmare situation when he turns up at your house.

• Don't make a big show.
  A first date is a nerve racking experience for both of you, you don't want to end up trapped in a date you aren't enjoying, simply because you have to finish the show. You should do everything to make sure you can be relaxed and confident, and show who you really are.
• Don't wear anything you don't feel comfortable in.
  This is an extension to the big show. First impressions count, and if you don't feel comfortable wearing the first impression you're giving him, it isn't you. and first dates are bad enough without having to yank that hemline down every few minutes, or breathe in because that belt pinches.

• Let your date know where you are going.
  This sounds obvious, but it puts then far more at ease than if they have no idea. Think about how many times you's felt over or under dressed, and how it saps your confidence.
• Don't just talk about yourself.
  Yes, you are the most interesting person in the world, and you have the most interesting life in the world, but doesn't everybody? The most interesting conversationalists are those who ask questions about other people.

• Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.
  Soooo obviuos, but so many people don't!

• If you're eating out, try to think about what you order.
  Don't order anything tats hard to eat, no matter how good the place makes it. If it makes you eat like a pig, chances are it'll ruin your make up, get onto your clothes, and make you feel dirty and self conscious all night

• Remember this is not a therapy session.
  Talking about ex partners, spouses, a messy divorce makes even the most intelligent person seem clingy and pathetic and asking about them can seem pushy and intrusive. Keep the conversation light.

• Make sure you consider your date when choosing where to take them
  You wouldn't want to take a devoted Vegetarian who eats like a sparrow to "Attila's all you can eat Mongolian Barbecue", similarly, you may like to think twice before asking a devoted meat eater for Vegan food

• At least be politely attentive.
  No matter how boring he is. There can be nothing worse than having your date looking over your shoulder constantly, or laughing when you tell him about your Auntie's funeral.

• Finally, and most importantly: have fun, and be yourself